My idea of a retreat is the perfect place to curl up and read …
so I found some reading nooks I wanted to share with you all!
Talking about making accessories personal got me thinking about all the many things people collect, and how special these collections can be to us. I was most certainly a collector when I was younger… stamps, candles, horse figurines, little animal statues, you name it and I probably had more than one. The only thing I really collect anymore are books, but I’d like to think I’m starting an art collection. I think collections are important, because generally, they’re cultivated over time with a good deal of care and attention. And even if you inherited a collection, someone else spent time on it. They show our personalities and our values and our unique sense of beauty and wonder.
Sometimes, though, I think it can be hard to figure out how to display a collection. I grew up admiring the displayed collections in the home of both sets of grandparents. My grandmother (dad’s side) collects antiques of all kinds, but I’ve always loved her collection of old baskets hanging from the barn beams in her family room. And my grandfather (mom’s side) was a dedicated collector of Native American artifacts, displaying them prominently in carefully planned shadow boxes. An entire wall in their dining room held his most treasured hobby of retirement: the birds he lovingly carved and painted, each one perfectly to scale and coloration of the real thing.
So today I went looking for interesting collection displays. I’ve always felt that the best way to display a collection is by keeping the items all together. That way, there is a sense of presence and importance given to them. And that can certainly make for a stunning visual presentation. Here are some of my finds!
Want to see more collections? Check out this fabulous project:
(all images from Pinterest)
Frank Lloyd Wright considered the hearth as the heart of the home. Many of his houses were designed with a fireplace at the very center, or with it visible from the front door. Well, the image below is not by FLW.
But it has a fabulous fireplace, fabulous view, and fabulous chair. Along with books!
This room sure says “sit down and stay awhile” to me…
If you’re like most of us, you have a very busy life. You’re trying to juggle work, kids, dogs, house, volunteer work, church groups, or a number of other things. Who has time to go all out for a dinner party? The better question is, why do we feel we need to? To add more to the discussion on “restraint”, and how we agree it applies to every part of life, today I want to apply it to entertaining. More specifically, I want to say that we should be entertaining with hospitality.
I think hospitality is a state of mind as much as it is an action. It requires that we open our hearts, not just our homes. That we make our lives accessible to our friends, family, neighbors and strangers alike. I love having people to our house, making them feel comfortable and welcome, enjoying an evening of good company. I want to show that I’m happy they’ve come, but I don’t do it by trying to redecorate my house or overdoing the table settings just for one evening. That’s not what hospitality is about. I make sure my house is (relatively) clean, that my dishwasher is empty. I put flowers on the table, light a candle or two, and get ready for company!
You already know my love of books, and I’ve found two that express this concept perfectly. Sandy Coughlin’s The Reluctant Entertainer and Karen Ehman’s A Life that Says Welcome. They talk about making your house a welcoming home, that focusing on the guests is more important than the menu or the centerpiece. Definitely pick these up at your local bookstore!
I do put some thought into setting the table, because, let’s face it, I care about how things look! But I try to use what I have. In the photos below, the only thing I didn’t already have were the fresh hydrangeas. You’ll see I used birdseed for vase filler, napkins as placemats and kept everything very simple. It’s nice to show company that you want them there, that you value the time you will be spending together, and that you took the time to clean up a little. Sometimes, though, we invite people over without much notice, or someone just shows up at your door. But by focusing on the guests, and using a few things you have around the house, making your home an inviting place can be done in a short time!
What are some ways you show hospitality? What are your go-to items for setting the table? We decided to register only for white dishware for our wedding, foregoing the traditional china. (When would we use china?) With white, I can mix in other patterns (like the odds and ends of china sets from grandparents) and less expensive and seasonal pieces. White goes with everything! And I love that it stands out from our dark table.
Come back tomorrow for Fabulous Find Friday! I’ve got some great things to share 🙂